Susan’s blog: Letters

Hand delivering letters from our Vernon area grannies to their letter-writing gogo partners is a happy task. The gogos are always beaming, thrilled that someone so far away cares about them. 

Norah Mhlongo receives a letter from her Vernon granny partner, Kathy Pratt.

Norah Mhlongo receives a letter from her Vernon granny partner, Kathy Pratt.

I’ve delivered 7 of the 26 letters so far, and have met a range of gogos. One is a retired nursing assistant who now has a small station set up at the centre to regularly test the blood pressure, blood sugar, etc for those who need it. One is HIV+ and has lost two daughters and a granddaughter through AIDS. One lives in a rudimentary shack made of boards, dirt floor and tin roof, but has a beautiful vegetable and flower garden surrounding her place.  One is very elderly and isn’t able to walk to the centre now because of the pain in her feet. When I asked what she was doing to help her feet, Ruth translated that she puts a “rub-rub” lotion on them and takes pain killers.          

It takes time but the rewards are plenty for me – hugs and gratitude, a chance to peek inside their homes and assess the living conditions, to ask a few questions, usually through Ruth as interpreter. Back in the car, Ruth fills me in on further details about each and I scribble it in my journal, then send a short email to each Canadian partner.

Susan’s blog: Gogo gardens

It’s summer in Sabie – the rainy season. In past summer visits I have managed to hit the dry spells between the rains. Not so this time. But, wow, does it make the gardens flourish. Yesterday there was a break in the misty rain and, the instant the sky brightened, a dozen gogos at the Ubuntu Centre laid down their sewing needles and picked up heavy garden implements. They headed down to their gardens (notice the plural – when I was here 9 months ago only one garden was fully producing) and set to work.

The gogos are breaking new ground, in every sense of that phrase.

The gogos are breaking new ground, in every sense of that phrase.

I couldn’t help but think what a metaphor this was, the quick switch from wielding fine needles to swinging heavy hoes, breaking new ground. These gogos have had to handle a life full of so many extremes.

While several hacked at the turf to enlarge their gardens, the others plucked at weeds which have responded to the rains just as lushly as the cabbages, potatoes, tomatoes and much more.

Things are flourishing - the gogos; the veggies.

Things are flourishing - the gogos; the veggies.

 

A local volunteer who comes in to help with sewing and knitting on Thursdays, mentioned that she was going to teach them how to can tomatoes soon. The recent purchase of a small deep freeze will ensure that no surplus produce will go to waste. With the gogos’ commitment to gardening each Mon, Wed, and Fri, there’s bound to be plenty for all to share.

Susan’s blog: Play time

As a special treat for about 40 gogos, Ginny and Millie arranged for them to see the dress rehearsal last night of the “Little Miss Muffet” pantomime being put on by the Sabie amateur theatre group. What a good time – I had as much fun observing the gogos’ response to this British genre as I did the actors on stage. The gogos got so completely involved with the actors, clapping at times in the middle of a scene or spontaneously cheering certain characters.

The witch, played very dramatically by an excellent actress, was a favourite of theirs. When the army captain first appeared in full regalia it caused a lot of commotion and talking amongst themselves and I was quite puzzled . . . until I remembered that they probably know of him in real life as a sabie policeman and, I’m guessing, were surprised to see him as an actor in the lead romantic role.

Gogos get dramatic with the Spider and other characters after the show.

Gogos get dramatic with the Spider and other characters after the show.

With Sabie being the small town that it is, the actors were happy to pose for photos with the gogos in different groupings afterwards. As you can see the gogos were quite willing to get in on the act.

Susan’s blog: Jo’burg arrival

Every time I return to South Africa it is with a great deal of keyed up anticipation. And every time I wonder and worry: have I set the bar too high with my hopes? Will my eager expectations not be met this time?

As I bolted from the plane my senses were fine tuned for whatever I could notice. I noticed opposites: the dehydrated atmosphere of 22 hours in planes juxtaposed against the wave of humidity that washed over us on emerging; the marbled interior upgrading of the Jo’burg airport as S. Africa prepares for the World Soccer event in 2010 vs. the impoverished porters all clamoring to help because they probably have 10 family members dependant on what they bring home.

This morning we had breakfast with a Wits university student, Samuel, who was a ‘project’ I started five years ago while living in Sabie. It is so gratifying to see the progress he has made, the young man of integrity and determination he has grown into. I’ll write more about Samuel and his uphill struggle another time.

Time to rent a car and onward-ho to Sabie – about a 4 hour drive. I’m chomping at the bit.

Susan’s blog: Countdown

Less than 48 hours until departure. My suitcases have lain open on the bedroom floor these past few days as I hurl things at them in passing . . . non-clothing items that I don’t want to forget – books, vaccination record, electrical adapters & converters, 50 Christmas cards which in my wildest fantasy I imagine writing, addressing and having ready to mail when we arrive home. (There’s a laugh for the day).

My husband, Ken, and I are taking a rather convoluted route this time which will depart from Kelowna and include plane changes in Vancouver, Toronto and Paris before arriving in Johannesburg. It also includes a change of airlines which means our luggage can not be checked all the way through and we must heave-ho it ourselves when switching.

After last night’s Grannies à Gogo steering committee meeting, I have carefully added two boxes with 100 signed calendars as Christmas gifts to our gogos. What amazing support we’ve had from our Vernon area grannies and community – we have completely covered our costs, and then some. Also in the suitcase now are 25 letters (count ’em!) from our letter-writing grannies. Yikes! That will keep me out of trouble 24/7 just hand delivering all of them. I’m looking forward to the adventure. “Salani kahle” (Zulu for goodbye, specifically to a group of people who are staying behind . . . there are different forms of ‘goodbye’ depending on singular, plural, staying or departing).

Buy a Calendar

In December, Susan Fenner will present our 100 Sitabogogo Gogos with calendars especially created for them.  They feature photos of our gogos thematically juxtaposed with photos of us.  To ensure that we do not use any of the funds we have collected for the Sitabogogo, we are “selling” the 100 calendars to cover the printing costs.  Each purchaser has the opportunity to write a message for a gogo on the back of the calendar and to sign his or her name.
 
Many people have already ” bought” and signed the calendars, but we still have some begging for special messages from us.  They are $10 each, 2 for $18 or 3 for $28.
 
If you would like to send a calendar or calendars to one of or several of the gogos in Sabie, South Africa, please send the message you would like written on the calendar(s) and the name you would like signed to anneclarke@shaw.ca and send your cheque to Carol Schroeder, Treasurer, #15 900 43 Avenue, Vernon, BC  V1T 9C8.  We must have them ready to send by Nov.13.
 
Many of us also want to keep one of these special calendars.  We are accepting orders and will print as many as are needed.  I know that I will order one to send to my sister in Vancouver; she is a keen supporter of our efforts on behalf of our gogos.
Anne Clarke